A new month, with no mistakes in it......yet.....

Time has gone by so quickly! Just trying to keep up with classes has been hard enough but then to keep up with the bills too!!!!

There was the most amazing storm hit on my first day of class! I had so many awesome pictures of the flooding on my phone, but then my phone died yet again so all of them where lost. (speaking of, if you want to hear from me, you should text me your number cause they were lost as well)

The latest leg of this adventure has me scared out of my poor little mind! The fates have brought all the circumstances together in the prefect way to leave me penniless, insuranceless and STRESSED out all together. I had 4 panic attacks in 4 days. It's shocking how stress impacts the human body. But today I looked outside and saw the blue sky, breathed the fresh and very clean air and realized that even broke I'm free, alive, following my dreams and it will all come together when it's supposed to. In the mean time I can keep my chin up, talk to people about possibilities, and ride this ride. The things I really want will come to me when it's time.

If I don't take a step I'll never move in any direction let alone forward.

first day of school down!

It's been a few weeks since my last post but the core of this adventure here has begun today! this afternoon I had my first meeting of Child Health, Safety, and Nutrition where I will relearn how to check children for lice and how to eat a balanced breakfast!

This evening I started Curriculum for Children! I learned the Barn song and I got to make sounds like a horse. =0)

And to top it all off.... When I was laid off from my office job I SWAR not to go back to an office.... ALL THE MIND NUMBING CRAP!!!!!! In a curl twist of irony, today I found myself in front of an IKON copier, page by page, coping the text books at the school library in order to save money. But get this! Due to my office experience, I knew how to unjam all 4 paper jams and set the function to "1 to 2 sided, job build" thus saving time and resources!

That's right! I Rock!

I'm 28 in 4 and a half hours.....

This is an amazing time of year for me. It all comes at once. Halloween is so big for me, then Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years...... and then just as the year turns for everyone, I find that I'm another year older.

As a kid birthdays were the biggest day of the year. Not just a day but "your birthday week"! Another year older and closer to the freedom of adulthood. Old enough for my first bike, old enough to babysit, old enough to get my ears pierced, old enough to drive, old enough to tell my dad HELL NO I'M NOT PARTICIPATING IN THAT CHURCH, moving out, falling in love, moving on, falling out of love, falling in love, and out again.........

One day I started to get to this day of the year and spend it realizing the things that didn't happen as I thought they would. At 26 I was single, aware that I had an extremely messed up idea of what a loving partner should be and was 50 lbs. heavier than 10 years before. At 27 I found that I'd been a smoker on and off for 10 years and hadn't successfully kicked the habit yet, I was still single with no sign of a family of my own on the horizon and my metabolism is never going to be what it was.

(give me a second, this will get better)

Tonight, just before I turn 28, all of the above still apply. I'm on day 3 of quitting smoking again, I'm single as the Pope (although I don't believe that the Pope is single in the full since of the word), I'm filled with the desire for a loving boyfriend at the least, but more a husband, home of my own and children. I want a dog, a cat! I want to be so busy caring for a family that I don't even have time to remember that this is my birthday. And if I can't get that, I want to have a career that I really love. Why have I not been preparing!?

Rather tomorrow I wake alone and unemployed.......

So tonight I'll cry. I'll feel this hurt inside of me that NEEDS to be felt.....BUT....

Tomorrow I'm 28! I'm leaving this sad and unfulfilled woman behind. Rather than hurting, I'm going to tell you how AWESOME LIFE IS!

1. I'm FREE! No one has the power to make me bend to their will because of some twisted belief system.

2. I KNOW what I believe in my heart and I feel NO GUILT anymore! I am the most powerful force in my life and it feels SO GOOD!

3. I WANT TO LIVE! I will never be Girl Interrupted again!

4. I have put everything in place to start a career doing what I love. If the family thing never happens for me, I'll still be loving my life every day.

5. I've started to work on becoming that health nut, earth hugging, yoga and meditation practicing, nature loving, adventuresome FREAK that I haven't been brave or strong enough to let myself be before now! And guess what! It shows me who my true friends really are. Cause they are loving me for it and encouraging me every step I take, even if it's not what they'd chose.

I'm 28 and I'm LIVING! I'm HAPPY! I'm following my dreams and taking care of MYSELF. What happens in the world around me only effects me as much as I let it. Every day is a chance to be that woman that I can see in my minds eye. Sooner or later you'll see her too!

I'm 28! SWEET!

home again

Well I went to Pasadena for the weekend and got to see many of my friend. It was really nice to have some time with them to sit and talk about everything. And it took away that lonely feeling (at least for now).

Yesterday I drove back to Los Osos and found that I really love my little place in the world. (once I turned on the heater)

Lonely Wednesday

Today I'm feeling a little alone. I'm really missing my brother, mom, friends in SoCal. It's just hard at times to keep my eye on the goal. I'm here to attend school and do so successfully. And I have a really wonderful friend here, Amanda, and her 3 kids who just love me! So I'm not really alone.

But it's scary to do this alone. It's scary to be an adult standing alone on my own 2 feet with just me to rely on. The bills get intense..... And when it's time to go home, there isn't someone there to sit next to, tell your troubles to, lean on or laugh with. That person who will just be there. But this is what I chose! I'm the one who decided to wait for that person that is worth sharing my life with. I NEED to remember it. And remember that I AM FREE! I can chose! Isn't that amazing!?

Well those are my thoughts this morning...... I hope your day is lovely!

xoxoxo
Becca

Sunny Acres Asylum

Hey all,

Today I went to check out an old spot my brother and sister and I used to explore. At the time we called it "The Orphanage" but I have since researched it a bit and found that it was a mental hospital, a TB hospital and then a juvenile detention center until it was closed due to asbestos. 

I would LOVE to own this and restore it...... aw to dream!

  
  
  
 
 
  

   
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Home.....

Good Afternoon friends! I'm finally hooked up! And now I can show you my new home!

First.....Here's my christmas tree! Sparkly!

This is my "living room and also the fold down bed you can sleep on when you come to see me!

(You're going to....right?)

  

The view of my "bedroom, from the bathroom..... and...

The bedroom from the kitchen!

    

I HAVE A KITCHEN!!!! I'm so excited about that!

  

And thank god for bathrooms!!!! 

You'd understand my excitement about the kitchen and bathroom if you'd seen my last place.

Although very cute and big, there was no bathroom or kitchen. I had to go into the main house for that. SO I'm glowing about these! =0)

 

This is the little sitting area just outside and where I plan to study and read on nice days.

  

And this is what the locales refer to as the "back bay". It is also just a few steps from my door! 

  
 
  
 

It's COLD here and very dark and quiet at night..... I'm still trying to get used to it. But over all I'm having a great time. I miss my friends and family and there are times when my heart hurts for wanting to see them, wanting a hug, someone to hold my hand. But at the same time I'm staying so busy. 

School starts on Jan 19th!!! There is so much to do to get finances in order and books and schedules and parking passes and on and on.... But I'm almost ready! A really WONDERFUL woman at the college helped me so much yesterday! Hunter Parry! I love her! She got my registration date moved up to right away and then helped me get all my classes right there!!! 

It's great when the path is clear like this.